I KNOW why you can’t say NO

We blame ourselves.

We feel sick inside.

Someone just asked us to do something that we didn’t really want to do and we can’t believe we heard ourselves say YES.

We wished we would have said NO.

A form of self-hatred rises up within us. We wish we were different, but we don’t know of any other way. We wish we could snap out of it, but we’re not sure how. And so we’re disgusted with ourselves. We’re stuck.

Have you had this experience?

I used to all the time.

I found myself doing the strangest things at the strangest times at the strangest places.

I was a victim…of my own doing.

Do you know why? Here’s the reason:

Until you spend the difficult time discovering what you should say YES to, you’ll never know what you should say NO to.

My lack of clarity and lack of self-awareness contributed to my fog and it pushed me into more ambiguity.

So what changed?

Everything!

Seriously.

Through a number of circumstances, people, and trials, God revealed a process that ignited my soul on fire.

I spent the difficult time (surrounded by several trusted truth tellers) discovering what I should say YES to.

Now saying NO is much easier.

I now call this process: SOUL ON FIRE.

And I’d like to share it with you.

Although, it definitely involves my new book YOUR SECRET NAME, it’s also something I’m rolling out here in the next couple weeks with some men in my area.

If you’re interested in learning more, keep reading this blog over the next few months.

• And if you’re local I’d like to invite you to a free (in cost, not in effort) opportunity to try this process on for size. I’m offering a unique experience on Friday mornings beginning February 12, from 7-8 am SHARP. (In fact, show up early) Come to Grace Church 7600 Liberty Rd. Powell, OH 43065

I don’t care who you are or where you are on your spiritual journey. Just show up if you’re convinced that there is more to life than what you are currently experiencing.

Get ready to be ignited.