There are no shortcuts to living out your opus

Work.

There are 2 Latin words for it.

  1. Laboris = toil
  2. Opus = labor of love

Which one are you living out?

Are you a highly paid laborer – laboris?

Or are you living out your Opus?

When you live out your opus your life kind of looks like this quote:

A master in the art of living draws no sharp
distinction between his work and his play; his
labor and his leisure; his mind and his body; his
education and his recreation. He hardly knows
which is which. He simply pursues his vision of
excellence through whatever he is doing, and
leaves others to determine whether he is
working or playing. To himself, he always
appears to be doing both.”!
Francois Auguste Rene Chateaubriand

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4 reasons why you should sign-up for our new monthly email list

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Do what you have to do well. So you can do what you love to do more.

Long title, I know:

Do what you have to do well. So you can do what you love to do more.

(This will be a short post, bad grammar, etc. At Panera and only have 5 minutes to jot my thoughts)

Too long of a story to tell, but this quote is my last 48 hours.

The key is to stay engaged, with your full heart….in whatever activity you are doing.

Show up in all contexts fully alive.

It’s something I am trying to do more of.

Be faithful in all tasks, not just the” important” ones.

Those around will be affected positively.

And chances are, in time, you will be doing what you love to do more.

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3 areas that are either breathing life or death into your organization

Life or Death?

You choose.

Improve these 3 areas and your organization will LIVE.

Ignore these 3 areas and your organization will DIE.

Maybe not immediately, but it will die slowly.

Here’s the BIG 3

  1. Leadership/Learning Culture
  2. Training
  3. Coaching
  • Leadership/Learning Culture  

It’s been said a variety of ways but within leadership, “You attract who you are.” Emerging leaders don’t join organizations that fail to take them further then where they already are.  Although leaders want a challenge, they also want to serve alongside like-minded people.

Top leaders value personal growth and want to invest their lives in a worthy organization that is believable. Likewise, such leaders want to serve within a structure and a culture that contains momentum and will complement with their gifts, talents, and abilities. (The alternative is no alternative at all–a culture that frustrates, limits, and repels leaders.)

In order to attract the next generation of leaders, we need to create a leadership/learning culture that will discover, develop, and deploy leaders into strategic  initiatives. Although work gets messy, we need to present a model that adequately envisions, equips, and empowers men and women to navigate successfully through these storms.   

  • Training:

The moment a compelling vision is cast to emerging and/or established leaders is the moment they test the waters and discern if the vision is believable and achievable. If necessary training to reach the next step is nonexistent or inferior then these leaders will become discouraged, disillusioned, and disengaged.

When we identify leaders without simultaneously providing adequate training to develop them we convey a culture of reactionary unpreparedness as opposed to strategic preparedness. When a leader is recruited we have one chance to communicate a development plan. Leaders kept in “the wings” or “in pools” until training systems get created will be lost.

Why? It’s simple.

True leaders lead.They don’t wait around for someone to tell them what to do. Leaders that aren’t engaged in the process will engage themselves in other projects or endeavors that are going somewhere.    

  • Coaching:

Leaders will not serve undersomeone who is a less skilled leader. This may work in the short-term, but it is not a sustainable strategy. Emerging leaders respect those leaders who have a greater skill than themselves. This isn’t a “sinful tendency,” it’s just reality. (We see this trend in John 1:35-51.)

We all have a certain amount of leadership potential. Some leaders choose to develop their potential and increase their leadership skill. One of the easiest ways to increase one’s leadership skills is to serve under someone who is a better leader. We see this pattern in athletics.

If an inferior team plays against a superior team often times they are pushed to play better. A better team stretches them and causes them to grow. It’s the same with leadership. A leader’s potential is determined by those closest to him. A leader reproduces who he or she is within the lives of his or her followers. Emerging leaders know this. They won’t follow positional leaders who are weaker than themselves.     

In organizations, if we want strong emerging leaders to join us then we need to offer them something compelling. We need to be stronger than they are. We need to be sharper than they are. Some of our current leaders need to be coached before they coach others. It’s hypocritical to think that we will attract leaders who want to grow and develop when we are not growing or developing.

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So how is your church, business, or organization doing in these 3 areas?

Would you add a 4th?

If so what?

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How much is your dream costing you?

Not much?

Nothing at all?

Cheap dreams aren’t a good sign.

Here’s my thought…

Dreams are free. Destinies are costly.

Dreams help us escape our present reality. And for most of us, our present reality could use a little more…color.

But the solution isn’t escapism.

Rather, it’s intentional, achieveable, action steps.

Don’t try to reach your dream in one big swoop.

Rather, do something  today that will take your dream from immaterial to material, from idea to embodiment.  

Don’t look to those around you to tell you what to do.

You already know the answer.

Like all of us, you don’t want to “own” your decision because then you fear you might:

  • fail
  • look dumb
  • mess up
  • crack up
  • lose
  • crumble

So instead you try and pawn it off on others.

Or make excuses.

But you’re not getting any younger.

And your destiny isn’t coming any closer.

So you must just let go and…

…JUMP…

What one step will you take today?

(If you want a free e-book in order to create a life-plan click here. Thanks Michael Hyatt).

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If you have to ask “Is this God’s will” then it probably isn’t

I think over some of the BIG things in my life:

  • Meeting and marrying my wife Kelly
  • Discovering we were pregnant when we were convinced we weren’t
  • Coming to Grace Church in Powell (9 years ago)
  • Getting signed by Zondervan
  • Finding the right house
  • Landing my largest speaking gig

All these things came to me in a way I couldn’t have orchestrated or manipulated.

Here me out….I’m not saying the time leading up to those choices were easyThe path toward those decisions was intensely difficult.

What I am saying is that with these BIG decisions, God’s fingerprints were so pervasive, I did’t have to say:

“Hmmmm I wonder if God is in this.”

Believe me, other times, many other time I forced things and it was so evident that God was not leading me…rather, I was trying to push Him.

Bottom line, in a tough choice, if you have to ask yourself, “Is this God’s will, then it probably isn’t…(or at least it’s not the right time).

If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. James 1:5-6

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Not like Me – Eric Bryant

Not Like Me: a Field Guide for Influencing a Diverse World.

Not Like Me helps people of faith effectively love, serve, and reach people overlooked by the church. One of the new features includes a brief article after each chapter with practical ways to apply the principles presented in that chapter.  The contributors include: Ed Stetzer, Amena Brown, Margaret Feinberg, Kevin Harney, Dr. Gerardo Marti, Kim Martinez, Lon Wong, Mark DeYmaz, Princess Zulu, Dan Kimball, and Erwin McManus (foreword).

My Amazon review:

Eric doesn’t just write about diversity, he lives it. “Not Like Me” is written as field guide for ministry and life reflecting several different voices from several different walks of life. Eric Bryant’s heart for the “outsider” is clear and his call for “insiders” to branch out is compelling.

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Hey Leader! Are you an Impostor?

On vacation last week I walked past a certain tree all week on the way down to the boat without thinking twice.

Then on the last day I actually looked at it.

I did a double take, unsure of what I was looking at.

At first it looked like an evergreen.

Then it looked like a….well not an evergreen.

Upon closer examination I discovered it was three trees in one.

It reminded me of lesson in leadership.

The way we lead communicates who we are.

But many of us don’t know who we are.

We’re pretending.

We’re unsure.

We’re unstable.

We’re looking to our followers to tell us who we are.

We’re impostors.

Upon closer examination, we’re three leaders in one.

We’re split and therefore so is our effectiveness.

In my new book, Your Secret Name, chapter 5 is titled Impostor Syndrome.

According to experts, 80% of us feel like we’re faking it at one time or another.

Until we answer the question-”Who am I?”…until we discover our Secret Name…we’ll struggle with living and leading as an impostor.

We’ll have moments of freedom and then run back into our chains.

We’ll have glimmers of courage and then cave into our fear-based leadership style.

Here’s a quick excerpt from Your Secret Name:

Who am I?

When trying to answer this critical question, most of us tend to look every direction, but the right one.

Sometimes we look inward–via mirrors.

Mirrors do serve a purpose: they tell us how we look. Unfortunately, they have their limitations: they can’t tell us who we are–despite how intently we peer into them. Mirrors might help us see our misplaced hair or perhaps our missing hair, but they can’t reflect our true identities.

And so other times we look outward–via people.

People do give their unsolicited impressions regarding who they think we are. We often digest their impressions and convince ourselves to be satisfied with the trivial terms they grant us. This reality fuels our addiction to affirmation, motivates us to work the long hours, and convinces us to buy the latest lotion that promises to reverse the effects of aging–because as long as the performance keeps flowing, so do the Given Names.

But the truth is only looking one direction–upward–will reveal our Secret Name. Fellow humans, no matter how loudly they speak, can never replace the voice of the Father. And mirrors, no matter how sparkling they appear, can never clear up the fog. God’s whisper alone satisfies our soul ache because God alone knows us better than we know ourselves.

Looking toward any other direction–inward or outward–for cues on who we are only accentuates the hypocrisy and duplicity that inhabits our hearts. Hypocrisy–because nobody completely bridges the chasm between what we say and how we act. Duplicity–because on some levels, we’re all impostors.

Intentionally or unintentionally, we all wear a certain set of masks. Partial disclosure isn’t bad all the time; it protects us from shame and embarrassment. But many of us wear our masks far too frequently–so much that we’ve lost touch with our potential for who God created us to be.

Excerpt taken from Your Secret Name by Kary Oberbrunner, published by Zondervan, available here via Amazon for $10.19 (ISBN:  978-0310285465).  More info www.yoursecretname.com

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One of the Quickest ways to Improve your LEADERSHIP game

You won’t want to miss the Catalyst Conference this year, happening October 6-8, 2010 in Atlanta, where 13,000 young leaders will converge for the leadership experience of the year, including high-octane speakers, powerful worship, innovative programming, and an experience unlike any other.

Hear from leadership authorities including Andy Stanley, Seth Godin, TD Jakes, Craig Groeschel, Francis Chan, Beth Moore, Perry Noble, and Christine Caine, along with several innovative thinkers and practitioners like best-selling author Daniel Pink, charity: water founder Scott Harrison, Gabe Lyons, First Response Team founder Tad Agoglia, and Rani Hong, winner of the United Nations Human Rights Award.

Plus, Catalyst Labs will feature innovative thought leaders like Michael Hyatt, Pete Wilson, Mark Batterson, Anne Jackson, John Ortberg, Mike Foster, Jud Wilhite, Reggie Joiner, Jamie Tworkowski, Alan Hirsch, Gayle Haggard, Chris Hodges, Jon Acuff, Tim Elmore, Charles Lee, Chris Seay, and Phileena Heuertz, and others.

Best Rates on Catalyst tickets end this Thursday, June 24th, so register now. Call 888.334.6569 to speak to a Catalyst Concierge, or register online at www.catalystconference.com. You can use Rate Code FOB for an additional discount off your ticket price. Catalyst will sell out, so make sure and register early!

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Why we watch movies

Some say we watch movies to escape our own lives.

I disagree.

I think the complete opposite is true.

I believe we watch movies to get more clarity in our own lives.

I believe we were born, hard-wired to be masters in the art of living.

As image-bearers we are destined to build our Opus just as God is building His Opus in and through us (Ephesians 2:10). 

Unfortunately, most of us are freaked out of our skin. We choose to live in fear. We crave control. We resist the unknown.

Instead, we watch movies to see others do their lives well in hopes that we can repeat it in our own.

Disagree?

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